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POTENTIAL HUMAN?
This is Dr. John
Willke with a Life Issue.Is a human fertilized egg only a
potential human? Not so. This is not a
potential human but a human with vast potential.
We might say that the
sperm swimming alone and/or the ovum waiting for the sperm constitute a
potential human, but once they unite, this is a human. This
being is
already male or female. We know this from X and Y chromosomes. He or
she is alive and growing, not dead.
Human? Yes. Each cell has the 46
characteristic chromosomes that identify it as a member of the human
family. This is not a carrot and certainly not a dog. This single cell
contains more information than all of the computers at the Space Center
in Houston.
Is this single cell only a potential human? No, rather
this is a human
with vast potential. This is Dr. John Willke. TOC
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INCOMPARABLE
SINGLE
CELL
The human fertilized egg is only a single cell, but it
is an incredibly
remarkable and unique one. It is already male or female.
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Never
before in the history of the world has this exact individual
human existed nor ever will again. It is complete.
No bits or pieces
will be added from this time until the old man or woman dies. Nothing
will be added but nutrition and oxygen. This being is programmed from
within, moving forward in a self-controlled, ongoing process of growth,
development and replacement of his or her own dying cells.
At this
point, he or she is dependent upon the mother for shelter and food, but
in all other respects is a totally new, different, unique and
independent human being. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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PLANT THE
SEED
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue.
Throughout most of history, it was always
assumed that the man planted
the entire new being in the body of the woman.
They knew that when a
farmer planted a wheat grain in the soil, the soil gave it nourishment
and the wheat plant grew. The entire wheat plant was originally
contained in that kernel, that seed.
And so it was logical to assume
the same in human reproduction. From this we get the term of "the man
planting the seed". We also speak of the woman being "fertile" or
"barren".
It wasn't until the early 19th century, when
conception was
discovered, that it was shown that the woman contributed half of the
new being, the man half, and that the result was a new living human.
Thought you'd like to know. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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FERTILIZE HOW
FAST?
Do you know how long it takes for human fertilization
to occur?
Actually, it happens rather quickly.
This is Dr. John Willke with a
Life Issue. First of all, sperm enter the woman's body.
They swim through the
cavity of her womb and out through her fallopian tubes. It can take as
short a time as five minutes to get through the uterus to reach the
tubes, and as little as 15 more minutes to go through the tubes to
reach her ovaries.
If at that time the egg is breaking out of the shell
of her ovary, it can be penetrated by one of the sperm very quickly.
When penetration happens, the ovum instantly creates a chemical or
electrical charge or fence preventing other sperm from entering. Most
people refer to this as the "moment of conception". This is Dr. John
Willke. (TOC)
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CHANGE IN CHARM
This is Dr. John Willke with a
Life Issue. After a baby leaves his mother to now
live separately, what is the
change medically?
The only real change is in the external life support
systems. At birth he changes his method of feeding and of getting
oxygen.
Previously these were obtained from the mother through
the
baby's umbilical cord - now the baby gets oxygen through his own lungs
and nutrition through his own stomach. Except for this, it's the same
baby whose bodily organs and muscles are functioning exactly the same
after birth as they did before.
There is one other change that we don't always speak
of -- a change in
charm, for now you can see the baby, hold and cuddle him. It's a lot
more difficult to kill a baby after birth, than before. This is Dr.
John Willke with today's Life Issue. (TOC)
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FETUS VS.
PRE-BORN
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Words
are important. What should pro-lifers call the being growing
within the mother?
Always speak of the unborn baby, pre-born baby or
child. And "Developing baby" is also professionally accurate.
Sometimes
more human terms should be used, such as "the little guy". Do
avoid
referring to the unborn child as "it". Rather use "he" or "she".
Remember that terms like "the fetus" and "the embryo",
which fall on
the listening ear, often mean non-human glob. So never use those terms
if you can avoid it.
But, if you must, then speak of the living human
fetus. Remember, the stage "fertilized egg" lasts only one day. What
implants a week later is not a fertilized egg but rather a living
embryonic baby. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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AMNIOCENTESIS
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. You're
pregnant. Your doctor wants to test the fluid around the baby -
do an amniocentesis. You have absolutely no intention of
aborting, even
if the baby is not normal. You also know that this test results in the
death of 1% of the babies tested.
So you say "no". Your doctor insists
and insists. What should you do? Tell him to write down in
his records that he
has urged you to have the test. Read his records. Write down that you
refuse. Sign with a witness.
Guess what? He'll quit insisting. Why? The
reason he wanted the test
was to prevent a possible lawsuit from you in the event the baby was
not normal. Now you can't sue, and he'll quit bugging you, because
probably the main reason he wanted the test done was to protect
himself. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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CLEANSE GENE
POOL?
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Would
it ever be possible to cleanse the gene pool? Well, no. Any
talk
about breeding out genetic diseases is a lot of nonsense. Seriously
affected people are unlikely to marry and unlikely to have children.
Rather, bad genes, if you call them that, are passed
along by carriers.
For instance, there are 40 carriers for every one person with sickle
cell disease. If every such affected victim were killed before birth,
it would require 750 years just to cut the incident in half.
And to
stamp it out altogether would require 200,000 abortions for every
500,000 couples. You see, each normal person is the carrier of three or
four bad genes, and the only way to eliminate genetic diseases would be
to sterilize everybody or abort everyone. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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PERMIT
EXPERIMENT?
Can parents give permission for medical
experimentation on their child?
Yes, but...it is assumed that they have concern for
their child's
welfare, and the hope must be that such experimentation will be of
greater benefit to the child than any possible harm from the
experimentation.
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. But
parents who give consent to abortion, to have their child in the
womb killed, obviously have no such loving interest. Legal tradition in
our country has always forbidden parents to injure, or allow others to
injure, their child.
That's what child abuse laws are all about. So, if
some kind of proposed fetal experimentation is not done to preserve the
life or health of the pre-born baby, then the parents have no moral
right at all to grant permission. (TOC)
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FETAL DEFECT
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Do
you use the word "fetal deformity" or "fetal defect"?
I hope not.
Why should we use such turn-off adjectives before birth, when we don't
use them after the child is born?
Think a moment. The word "deformity"
makes us turn away almost in revulsion. "Defective"?
Our culture throws
defective things away. Rather, use handicapped. It's a word that calls
for a helping hand. To use "fetal deformity" or "fetal
defect" is to
make the killing easier.
To use "fetal handicap" is to open someone's
heart and invite them to help. Remember, killing a handicapped pre-born
is killing the patient to cure the disease. Before birth and after
birth, it's the same patient with the same handicap. This is Dr. John
Willke. (TOC)
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EQUAL
QUALITY OF LIFE
Is it worth the expense to save the lives of tiny
premature babies? Can
those children enjoy life as others do, particularly if they are left
with certain neurologic handicaps?
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life
Issue. A recent study compared two groups of teenagers. One
group had weighed
less than a 1000 grams (2 lbs.), the others were born with normal
weights.
One-fourth of the preemies, but only 2% of the others,
had
some degree of disability. Each was asked to evaluate him or herself on
how they perceived their own health-related quality of life.
Both
"normals" @ 73% and those born prematurely @ 71% valued life highly and
almost the same. Are their lives worth saving? Just ask them, they'll
tell you. (TOC)
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"NORMAL"
& DOWN'S
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. One
day, many years ago, two babies were delivered in Braunau, Austria.
One was a fine healthy boy. He had a strong cry. His parents were
extremely happy and proud of their son.
The other was a little girl.
Her parents were very sad, for she was a Down's Syndrome baby. A
physician friend followed them both for almost 50 years.
The girl grew
up living at home and was finally destined to be the one who nursed her
mother through a very long and lingering illness after she had a
stroke. My friend does not remember her name. He does,
however,
remember the boy's name. He died in a bunker in Berlin. His name was
Adolf Hitler. This is Dr. John Willke.
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ENJOY
HANDICAPPED LIFE
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. (Listen Now)
The assumption that handicapped people enjoy life less
than "normal"
people has been shown to be completely false.
A number of well
documented investigations have shown that there's no difference between
handicapped people and those without handicaps in their degree of life
satisfaction or of outlook of what lies immediately ahead, and their
vulnerability to frustration.
In one series of 150 unselected spina
bifida patients who were questioned when they were older children, all
were asked whether their handicaps made life not worth living - and
should they have been allowed to die after birth.
The unanimous
response was forceful. Of course they wanted to live. In fact, they
thought the question was ridiculous. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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HANDICAPPED
ADOPTION
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Recently
a concerned mother called me regarding her daughter's
pregnancy.
Two couples were interested in adopting her baby.
However, when born,
the baby had Down's Syndrome, and neither couple then wanted the child.
We called the Down's Syndrome Association of that city
and were told
that there were 30 couples in that area waiting to adopt a baby with
Down's Syndrome. The baby was placed in a pair of loving arms. Did
you
know that there are couples waiting throughout the nation for
handicapped babies, no matter how severe their problem? (TOC)
Recently a baby
who was born deaf, blind and without arms or legs was placed for
adoption. Truly there are no unwanted babies. This is Dr. John Willke.
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AMA &
ABORTION
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. In
the nineteenth century, the American Medical Association called
physician abortionists "men who cling to a noble profession only to
dishonor it - false brethren - educated assassins - modern Herods - the
executioners.
These men should be marked as Cain. They should be
made
the outcasts of society."
That was back then, but in recent years the AMA has
defined such
abortionists as "conscientious physicians who should be permitted to
perform abortions."
Back then the AMA called abortion "the slaughter of
countless children - unwarrantable destruction of human life." But
now
the AMA calls it "the induced termination of pregnancy - a medical
procedure." It's something to think about! This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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AMA,
AIDS &
ABORTION
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue.
The cover of a recent issue of the Journal of the American Medical
Association was blank because the issue was focused on AIDS.
Readers
were asked to consider the "incalculable loss" from the disease -- "the
loss to all those whose lives would have been touched, even changed,
but were not; by books not read because they were never written; by
paintings not seen because they were never painted; by performances
never heard because the song was not sung."
The same issue contains a laudatory review of a book
about abortionists
(hmmm). Perhaps we should consider "the incalculable loss
to all of
those whose lives would have been touched, even changed, but were not,
by books not read because they were never written, by paintings etc.,
because they were killed before they were born." (TOC)
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AMA &
PARTIAL-BIRTH ABORTION
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue.
The American Medical Association's policy on abortion, since the
Supreme Court decision, has been that what is legal is medically
acceptable. In other words, they have had a pro-abortion policy.
However, a welcome exception to this occurred during
the Senate debate
on partial-birth abortion. In an unexpected reversal of its previous
policy, the AMA announced that the partial-birth abortion procedure is
one that; quote "is never the only appropriate procedure and has no
history in
peer-reviewed medical literature or in accepted medical practice."
Translated that means that this is the one method of
abortion that the
AMA opposes. Let's hope my medical colleagues also re-think their
approval of the other methods of killing the unborn. This is Dr. John
Willke. (TOC)
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PARTIAL-BIRTH ABORTION
I
Partial-birth abortion. In over 80%, these babies are
entirely normal,
and the mother has no obstetric problem.
These babies are past the
half-way mark and, with few exceptions, can survive outside of the
womb, if allowed to be born. This is Dr. John Willke with a
Life Issue. The abortionist risks the mother's future
ability to have children by
spending three days stretching open the mouth of her womb.
Then he
risks perforating her uterus by reaching into the womb from below and
bringing the baby down feet first in a breech delivery.
He delivers the
body, then, still keeping the head in the birth canal, jams a scissors
into the base of this living child's skull, threads a tube between the
blades and kills the child by sucking out his brains. Then
he delivers
the head of the now dead baby. Abortion? Not really -- this is
infanticide. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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PARTIAL-BIRTH
ABORTION
II
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue.
80% of partial birth abortions kill a normal, viable baby during
delivery. In one Senate debate, a pro-abortion senator was
asked,
"What
if, just as the abortionist is about to jam a scissors into the skull
of this live baby, the mother coughs and the baby pops out?
Can you now
kill the baby?"
The senator changed the subject. Let us
answer it. She wanted to get unpregnant, and now she is. So why
not just cut the cord and send the infant to the nursery?
Yes, and into
the loving arms of adoptive parents. You know even if you
believe that the mother must terminate her
pregnancy, there
is absolutely no reason to kill the child -- except that the mother
wants the baby dead. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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PARTIAL-BIRTH ABORTION
III
This is Dr. John
Willke with a Life Issue. Partial birth abortion.
Four-fifths of these babies and mothers are
normal, and almost all are old enough to survive if allowed to be
delivered.
But what if the baby's head is too large?
The abortionist must reach up
inside the womb, a dangerous thing, turn the baby and deliver it feet
first, then jam a scissors up into his or her skull and suck out the
brains before delivery.
But why expose the mother to the risks of permanent
damage to her
cervix, perforation and laceration of her womb, bloods clots and more?
Why not a simple, safe Cesarian Section, if the head
is too large? Because they want her baby dead. A C-Section
would give her a live baby
and they want the baby killed. Stop and think -- this is really what
partial-birth abortion is all about. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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ABORTION %
WITH RU 486
The French abortion pill, RU 486 -- Yes, it is coming
to the United
States. Tightly restricted at the beginning, but then the gates open.
What percent of induced abortions may ultimately be
done using the
pill? This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue.
Well, let's look at France. We've been told repeatedly
that 25% of
abortions in France are done with the pill. That's not correct.
Official data from the French health department tells
us that there
have never been more than 14% of French women who have used RU 486.
The
numbers in Sweden are way below that, and in Britain it is only about
2%. These figures may give us a clue as to what percent will be done
with the pill here in America. The main method will still remain
surgical abortion. I just wanted to let you know. (TOC)
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MARGARET SANGER
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. In
her 1922 book, Pivot of Civilization, the author unabashedly called
for drastically limiting the number of people in certain racial groups.
She called them "weeds" overrunning the human garbage.
She was a
eugenist who called for the segregation of those whom she called
morons, misfits and maladjusted. She wanted to sterilize "genetically
inferior races", singling out Chinese, Jews, Southern Europeans and
Blacks.
And who was this? She was Margaret Sanger.
Her American Birth
Control League's goals in the '40s paralleled too closely what happened
in Nazi Germany, so she changed its name to the Planned Parenthood
Federation of America. I thought you should know. This is
Dr. John
Willke. (TOC)
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CREATING
SUPERMEN
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Do
you remember a famous person in 1934 who decreed that no woman
should have the legal right to bear a child without a permit, and that
no permit should be valid for more than one child?
This person called
for the elimination of those she called "the unfit, the disgenic". She
coined the word "birth control" and spoke of it as the process of
weeding out the unfit, aimed at the creation of a "superman".
Famous
quotes were:
"The most merciful thing that a large family does to
one
of its infant members is to kill it"..and.."All our problems are the
result of overbreeding among the working class." And who
said, wrote and published these little gems? Margaret Sanger -
- founder of Planned Parenthood. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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MEN AND ABORTION
Do men suffer the after-effects of abortion? You're
probably aware that
abortion often severely affects women psychologically. But did you know
that many men also suffer from the loss of their child?
This is Dr.
John Willke with a Life Issue. Men are instinctively
programmed to provide for and protect their
offspring. Sadly, because of U.S. Supreme Court rulings, the woman can
shut the father out of this, one of life's most crucial decisions. The
father has no legal right to stop the killing of his unborn child. In
the wake of abortion, men often suffer considerable grief and shame
because they were unable to provide for and protect their unborn baby.
This can result in corrosive anger, suppressed guilt
and a variety of
other symptoms. So, remember men suffer too. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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MEN HURT TOO
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. What
are the symptoms of men who suffer psychologically from the loss
of their baby by abortion?
Anger is common and often is expressed in a
destructive way. He may turn to alcohol or drugs to dull the pain of
his grief and shame. He may become a workaholic. He may become
unemployable due to an inability to handle decision-making. He
may be
an excessive risk-taker, setting himself up for failure, and then
seeing this self-inflicted failure as punishment for failing to protect
his unborn baby.
Future relationships with women may be difficult or
impossible. Additional symptoms include: sexual dysfunction,
sleeplessness, panic attacks, poor coping skills, flashbacks,
nightmares, self-imposed isolation or even suicidal tendencies. Yes,
men hurt too, and we shouldn't forget this. This is Dr. John Willke.
(TOC)
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MESSAGE FOR MEN
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue.
Are you a man with an abortion in your past?
If you're having
difficulty dealing with the loss of your unborn child, I have
encouraging news for you. You are not alone. Your feelings
are shared
by millions of other men. There are compassionate men and women, many
who have also experienced abortion, willing to assist you in dealing
with this loss.
What to do? Locate your local right to life group or
crisis pregnancy center. There you will find loving, caring people who
can help you.
You need to share your story with someone you can
trust.
You need to grieve over this shame and loss. You need to mourn for the
baby you will never hold in your arms. There is help for you so don't
wait. Make that call today. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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WOMEN NOT PUNISHED
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue.
In years past, when
abortions were illegal, were women punished if
convicted of getting an abortion?
The answer is no.
But abortionists
were punished. If convicted they were sent to jail--never executed, but
they were sentenced to serve time in the penitentiary.
In sharp
contrast, women were never punished. In all of the history of the U.S.,
there isn't a single case where a woman was even indicted for getting
an abortion. The law always recognized the woman as being a victim. Let's
remember that laws in the United States rely heavily on
precedent. If abortion is ever again forbidden, let me predict that
abortionists will again be punished, but not the woman. Thought you'd
like to know. This is Dr. John Willke.
(TOC)
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SLAVERY/ABORTION
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HISTORY REPEATS
We cannot say too often that the basis of
slavery was the deep-seated
conviction of so many people that black people were biologically
inferior. Is abortion an analogy?
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life
Issue. Listen to what I said in my book, Abortion
& Slavery-History
Repeats:
"For decades our nation tolerated, indeed
stoutly defended an
institution which embodied the theory that a whole race of people were
biologically inferior to others. They formulated ingenious
rationalizations for their conduct, devised legal barriers to its
correction, heaped indignities upon those who spoke out in protest,
challenged the right of free inquiry and discussion, and finally,
tragically, sent their own men out to kill each other in the Civil
War."
Except for the war, we're repeating the same
story with abortion.
This is Dr. John Willke.
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ABORTION CLINIC?
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Please
understand that the term "abortion clinic" is a clear and strong
pro-abortion propaganda term. Sadly, pro-lifers use it only
too often,
but it's an inherent contradiction. A clinic is where you go to be
healed, so these aren't clinics.
What to use? Abortion mill?
Abortorium, Killing center? Call it an abortion facility,
if you must
be neutral. But, best of all, call it an abortion chamber. That reminds
us of gas chambers, extermination centers.
Properly so. Every second
human being who enters an abortion chamber is exterminated. And we do
mean that tiny human inside the womb of his or her mother. Perhaps we
should remember how important words are. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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PRO-LIFE/ANTI-ABORTION
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. We
call ourselves "pro-life". They call us "anti-abortion". By
all
means, let's phrase this positively. We are for protection of the
unborn, the handicapped, the aged, and for help for the mother. Do not
accept the negative label - "anti-abortion". (TOC)
There is nothing negative
about being for life. In any case, we are not only against abortion,
but were also against infanticide and euthanasia.
And what should you call them? Please, never
call them "pro-choice". When you do, you help change the
question to one of women's rights.
When that happens, more babies die, and your use of the words
"pro-choice" can help to kill babies. Call them
pro-abortion, call them
anti-life. Anything - but not pro-choice. If at times you must use
those two words, always add "pro-choice to kill". This is Dr. John
Willke
(TOC)
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ABORTION IS
TO KILL?
This is Dr. John
Willke with A Life Issue:
For abortion, the proper word to use is "kill",
as in "kill babies". Use it repeatedly, consistently, directly,
often. It is a non-judgmental, accurate, biologic description of
what happens. We use it when we step on a roach. We use it
when we spray crabgrass. Use it here also. What of the word
"murder"?
Well, a much stronger word. But you cannot murder a dog or an
insect, only a human being. So to call him a murderer, clearly
implies that he knows that this is a living human being and kills
anyway. Therefore, use "murderer" with caution. It has its
place, but sometimes it can be counter-productive. The word
"kill", however, as in "kill babies", is always in order. This is
Dr. John Willke.
TOC
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ABORTION
& BREAST
CANCER
You continue to hear about the link between
women having abortions and
later breast cancer. Well, you'll be hearing more.
This is Dr. John
Willke with a Life Issue. (Listen Now)
To date, there are 11 major studies that have
been done in the U.S.,
and ten of them confirm the abortion/breast cancer link.
Worldwide
there have been 30 major valid studies, and 24 show a direct
association between abortion and breast cancer. On an average, these
studies are showing that if she has an abortion, particularly if before
her first full-term pregnancy, she increases her chance in later life
for breast cancer by upwards of 50%.
This looks more and more like a
definite cause-and-effect relationship. I, for one, am now convinced
it's real. Best you think about this. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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MISCARRIAGE
&
BREAST CANCER
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue.
You've heard that induced abortion is closely
associated with, and may
be a cause of breast cancer in later life.
The question then arises -
what of a miscarriage?
Does it also bring such a threat? Happily, the
answer is no.
The reason apparently lies in the degree of
stimulation
of her breast cells by the female hormone, estrogen, which has been
implicated as being a major causative factor of breast cancer.
Early in
a normal pregnancy, estrogen is present in her body in very high levels
and is needed to maintain the pregnancy.
When a miscarriage occurs,
however, almost without exception she had considerably lower levels of
this hormone in her body. Therefore, there was less stimulation, and
this produced less of a threat of cancer. This is Dr. John Willke.
(TOC)
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ONLY
RELIGIOUS ISSUE?
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Is
abortion only a religious issue? The bottom line is that
our
religious faith motivates us. Belief in God, in our creation by Him, in
his authorship of life, of his commandments and His justice, and in our
brotherhood and sisterhood with the unborn, is a powerful motivation
which leads believers to work for the protection of the unborn.
But it
can never be the sole legal justification for seeking laws to protect
the unborn. The legal and secular reason for such laws is that this is
a human rights issue, a civil rights issue.
Should an entire class of
living humans be deprived of their unalienable right to life on the
basis of age (too young) and place of residence - living in the womb?
This is Dr. John Willke.
(TOC)
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YOUR
DOCTOR, AN
ABORTIONIST?
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Is
your doctor an abortionist?
Most abortionists ply their grisly trade
full time. But some also maintain a private practice.
All women have a
right to know if their doctor does abortions. Do you really think that
doctor is going to have the dedication and put forth the needed effort
to save the life of your child at delivery - if that same day he's
being paid to kill some other woman's baby?
I'd suggest you find out
who the abortion doctors are in your area. Then widely publicize who
they are through public pronouncements, in your newsletters -- yes, and
picketing them, if necessary. Most doctors who are part-time
abortionists will quit the killing business if this ugly practice of
theirs is publicized. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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HELP GET
ABORTION?
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. You
have a friend who's going to get an abortion? You tried to talk her
out of it and failed?
She's definitely going anyway, and now she
asks
you to drive her there and support her? Should you?
My advice is -
absolutely not!
If she said she was going to commit suicide,
would you
drive her to the bridge?
If you do drive her, babysit her other
children, loan her money or help in any way, your actions loudly and
clearly tell her that abortion is all right, no matter what else you
say.
What should you do beyond explaining fetal
development and
offering any and all alternatives? Pray for her and with her. Tell her
she can call you if she needs help afterwards, but do not aid her in
any way. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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U.N.
CHILDREN'S TREATY
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. The
treaty, the U.N. Convention on the Rights of the Child, sounds good
but it does not recognize any specific right of parents to make
decisions for their children. The only authority is the State.
It potentially could outlaw spanking, outlaw
home schooling, give
children rights independent of their parents, give them the right to
contraceptives and abortions irrespective of parental wishes, prohibit
parents from teaching religion to an unreceptive child or from taking
them to church, put parents under active scrutiny by the State,
register and track all children, lead to universal child care - and the
ugly list goes on.
Do you think our Senate should ratify that
United
Nations treaty? This is Dr. John Willke.
(TOC)
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UGLY AMERICANS
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. You've
heard the phrase, "Ugly American"? We're called this by many in
the Third World because of what our foreign aid is doing to their
countries.
Foreign aid sounds good, but what does it
translate into in
those poor countries?
I travel extensively overseas and see it again
and again. Walk into a health clinic subsidized by funds from the
USAID.
The shelves will be loaded with condoms and
contraceptive pills.
but no penicillin.
It's quite clear to them that our government
has a
single-minded purpose - to prevent them from having children, to abort
those who are conceived, and then, only too often, not to help keep
them alive after they are born. They call us "Ugly Americans"? You know
what? They're right. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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DEMOGRAPHIC
DISASTER
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Do
you know which nation in the world has the lowest birth rate? It's
Italy.
The average woman there is now bearing only
1.2 babies in her
lifetime. In order to only replace those who die, the average woman in
a nation must have, not 1.2 but 2.1 babies.
Italy is a rapidly aging
nation. Unless the birth rate rises dramatically, that nation as we
know it will largely disappear by the end of the next century. But all
of Western Europe is in similar trouble.
The average in Western Europe
is 1.5 babies. Remember, they need 2.1 just to stay at Zero Population
Growth. Population observers are now beginning to speak of Western
Europe as a demographic disaster area. Incidentally, except for our
heavy immigration, the U.S. would be following not too far behind. This
is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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ABORTION
VS. WAR
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. You've
heard that pro-life people are inconsistent. They say that we
want to stop the killing of the unborn, but that we're all in favor of
killing in war.
Not so, of course, but let's look at the
differences.
If there is ever a clear-cut justification for
war, it would be a war
of self-defense. In contrast, abortion is brutal
aggression. This kind
of war would not be wanted - it would be unplanned.
Abortion is wanted
and planned. War is waged by the state.
Abortion is committed by a
private citizen. Again, war is one nation against another nation,
whereas abortion is one individual who sees to the killing, or does the
killing, of another private individual. There is a difference. This is
Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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PATER
&
MATERFAMILIAS
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Reverend
Charles Carroll, an Episcopal priest, chaplin at University of
California at Berkley, expert in international law and U.S. officer at
the Nuremburg trials,
has stated, "As I would reject the law of
pater-
familias of ancient Rome, so I would also reject the law of mater-
familias in present day America. As I would not sympathize with the
Roman state giving the power of life and death over his offspring to
the Roman father, so I cannot sympathize with the Supreme Court
decision granting the power of life and death over her offspring to the
American mother. Surely, I would hope our lawmakers would be as humane
as the Emperor Hadrian who abolished that article of Roman law." This
is
Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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ABORTION/EUTHANASIA
I
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Abortion
and euthanasia both directly kill living humans, and they're
both done for the same reasons:
• Usefulness - We kill a baby in the womb
because we assume he will be
a burden, but, since his stroke, Dad has been a burden.
• Wantedness -
The unborn baby is unwanted, and so she aborts. Do you know any old
folks who are unwanted?
• Degree of Perfection - The baby is not
perfect; she will be
handicapped, and so the pre-born baby is killed, but what of your Aunt
Susie now in the nursing home and quite handicapped?
• Age - The baby is too young. He has not yet
reached a certain age,
therefore he can be aborted. But what of Uncle Joe? He is long past a
certain age.
If we kill because one human is too young,
will we someday
kill another because he is too old? This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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ABORTION/EUTHANASIA
II
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Abortion
and euthanasia both directly kill living humans, and they're
both done for the same reasons:
• Cost - Children are aborted because their
parents are too poor, but
someday will their parents be killed because their children are too
poor?
• Numbers - They have too many children
already, and so they abort this
one. Soon we will have far too many old folks, and so will we rid
ourselves of them?
• Intelligence - We rationalize abortion
because the baby is not yet
conscious. But what of the lady with Alzheimer's who is no longer
really conscious or aware any more.
If you can kill one, why not the
other?
Abortion and euthanasia both kill and both are
done for the same
reasons. Think about it. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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ABORTION/EUTHANASIA
III
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Abortion
and euthanasia both directly kill living humans, and they're
both done for the same reasons:
• Place of Residence - Abortion is allowed
because the baby is still
living in his first little house, the womb. You can't kill him after he
moves out. But if a criteria for killing the unborn is place of
residence, what about all these old folks living in nursing homes?
• Marital Status - The mother is unmarried,
therefore abortion is okay.
But Aunt Mary is widowed, therefore euthanasia is?
• Meaningful Life - The Supreme Court
justified abortion because the
fetus "does not yet have meaningful life."
Euthanasia bills now speak
of those who "no longer have meaningful life."
Abortion and euthanasia
both kill, and for the same reasons. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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FEAR OF DYING
Many people really fear dying. They fear the
pain that may be involved;
they fear being a burden; they fear rejection, loss of control. But
dying does not have to be a horrible experience.
This is Dr. John
Willke with a Life Issue.
Physical pain can always be alleviated. But
that's not the ultimate
goal. We who love this person should try to make their dying an
honorable and rewarding experience.
You can sit with that person
quietly or in conversation. You can pray with him or her. You can sing
to them. You can rub their back, oil their skin, hold their hand, bring
flowers.
Hospices are examples of the best of this
tender, loving care
by those closest to the patient. When this care is given, the question
of assisted suicide doesn't even arise. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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CARE
OR ASSISTED
SUICIDE
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue.Assisted
suicide or compassionate care?
The question is being argued.
Over the last two decades we've learned a
great deal from hospice care.
We found that if we can keep a patient comfortable and, more
importantly, help them feel confident that they will not be alone and
abandoned, then dying can be a meaningful time, a rich time of life.
Given those conditions, families then are able
to say things to each
other -- "I love you", "Thank you", "I forgive you", "Forgive me", and
then "Goodbye".
It's a time when that person can retell
stories, can
share with children, spouse and loved ones what they have learned and
the meaning of the life they leave behind. It can provide rich,
rewarding and meaningful memories to their posterity. This is Dr. John
Willke. (TOC)
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BIOLOGICALLY
TENACIOUS
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. uthanasia
people constantly paint a frightening picture.
It's of an
old man tied down in bed, in great pain and obviously dying. He has
tubes in every body orifice.
Why don't these cruel doctors let him die?
You know what? That's not
the person they're
interested in. That poor
gentleman will die.
Proponents of euthanasia are much more
concerned
about those who somebody thinks ought to die but who won't -- the
biologically tenacious.
These are people not in pain, not on life
support, but, by somebody's judgment, are burdens.
It is the normals
around them who judge their quality of life to be unacceptable and who
want them dead. But if we begin by allowing this old man to be killed,
they will move to the next and the next, and where will it stop? This
is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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GERMAN
EUTHANASIA
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue.
Was the German Euthanasia Program the same as the Nazi Holocaust? No,
it was not.
The German Euthanasia Program began several
years before
the first Jew was killed. It was begun by doctors who decided that some
lives were not worth living. First they killed hopelessly insane adults
and idiot children.
The price tag was then progressively lowered
until
those institutions were empty. The first gas chamber was erected in a
psychiatric hospital by doctors.
Three years later, after these doctors
established that defective humans could or should be killed, Hitler
turned to a "defective" race, and the Holocaust began.
But the entering
wedge of the Holocaust was when doctors decided that some lives were
not worth living and began to kill them. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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FALSE SAFEGUARDS
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Those
who favor assisted suicide or euthanasia tell us that it's
happening anyway. They say that if we make a law permitting it, and
with sufficient restrictions, this would regulate it, stop back-alley
euthanasia and would be the humane thing to do.
But, if those doctors
are not obeying the law now, what makes us think that they would obey
the new law then?
If they're willing to risk their careers by
committing a felony now, what makes us think that they would hesitate
to commit a misdemeanor then?
Experience in Holland has shown conclusively
that, even though
legalization included a dozen restrictions to prevent abuse, after a
short time many doctors ignored all restrictions. And today thousands
are killed by doctors without their knowledge or consent. This is Dr.
John Willke.
(TOC)
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EUTHANASIA
SOCIETY
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Is
there a euthanasia society in America? Yes, there is, and that was
its original name.
But it didn't attract many members, and so
they
changed their name to the Society for the Right to Die. That still
didn't do the trick, so they changed again to The Society for Concern
for Dying.
This one clicked and has attracted more
members.
Dear Abby
was a prominent founding member of their advisory council, as was Dr.
Allan Guttmacher, former head of Planned Parenthood.
Another more
recent group is the Hemlock Society. Its equivalent in England is the
Exit Society. They are all from the same "culture of death" people.
They're all after the same thing. They want to make it legal for
doctors to kill patients. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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VULGAR LANGUAGE
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Vulgar
language has always existed. Expressions referring to Divine
Persons, excrement or genital sex have debased language since the dawn
of history.
Until recently, vulgar language was largely a
preserve of
men, but now vulgar and obscene language have become fairly common
among young women. Is this a necessary equalization of the sexes -a
gain for women - liberation, progress? Or is it cultural degeneration?
Have they lost by debasing themselves?
In the past, has vulgar language increased a
man's power and stature
before women? Does its use today by a girl make her more feminine, add
to her attractiveness to men?
Stop and think -- what do those words, that
you're using, really mean?
Is that what you really mean to say? Think about it. (TOC)
52
PREMARITAL
CHASTITY
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Is
premarital chastity only a religious value, or is it one oriented
toward the preservation of intact family life, and hence a value that
helps maintain a stable society?
Was chastity imposed in times past for
reasons no longer valid, or was it also learned by man and woman
through trial and error over the centuries and then incorporated into
both civil and religious value systems?
Well I think it's obvious that
certain ethical religious norms have gone beyond the realm of sectarian
religious teaching, and now, as core values, have become firmly
embedded in Western civilization. Thou shalt not kill is certainly one.
I believe premarital chastity is another one of these values. Do you?
This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
53
GOING STEADY
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Bernice
entered the dress shop contemplating a purchase. The clerk
showed her only one dress and said there was no other choice. Did she
buy?
No. In fact, she walked out quite upset. She
wasn't content with
such a narrow choice. She wanted to see a wide selection of dresses of
varying styles, materials and prices before finally committing herself.
Only then could she be sure she had the right one.
But this same Bernice has been going steady
with one boy for over a
year now and intends to continue in that commitment. She had never
really dated much before meeting him. But she's sure this is "it", and
she dreams of marrying this boy when they finish high school. Strange
world! This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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KISSES
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Stop
and think. There are many kinds of kisses.
There are hello kisses,
thank-you kisses, I-like-you kisses, I-love-you kisses, I'll-use-you
kisses, let's-go-further kisses.
You see, a kiss is more than a
handshake.
It says something more than words. It says
something to your
partner. It also says something about you.
The Statue of Liberty says
something. A red stoplight says something. A girl's diamond ring says
something. But the lofty message of the Lady in the Harbor has at times
been abused. People do run stoplights. Some girls aren't faithful. A
sign means something, or it should. A kiss is a sign, and kisses can
say many things. What do your kisses say? This is Dr. John
Willke. (TOC)
55
CHILD'S
SOCIAL LADDER
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Each
child climbs a ladder, beginning with the first dancing, then
dating -- and that leads rung by rung to eventual marriage.
For most,
this seems to take just so long. The younger they begin, the younger
they top out. If the climb up this social ladder is begun in high
school, they reach the top, are ready for and can marry in their early
20's when their chances for a successful marriage are good.
But if the
climb up this ladder is begun in primary grades, and they're dating by
junior high, then many will reach the top, become intimate too soon,
too often get pregnant, face abortion and perhaps a too early marriage.
Their chances for happy lifetime marriages are
clearly less if they
climb this ladder too soon. What rung are your children on? This is Dr.
John Willke. (TOC)
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HONEYMOON
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Is
a honeymoon important? Yes! For most couples, it was an
unforgettable time.
But from a social standpoint, it is also
important.
It marks the boundary between one social status and another. The
engagement, wedding and honeymoon are called "rights of passage".
The
more formal and the longer the engagement, the more ritualized the
ceremony and the longer the honeymoon, the more this contributes to the
full celebration of the entrance into marriage, strengthening the bond,
helping to ensure it will endure.
Did you know that only half of sexually
experienced couples take a
honeymoon, compared to 90% of virgins?
Did you know that those who've
tried it out ahead of time divorce more often, while virginal marriages
are much more stable? This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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LOVE
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Being
able to love is really what makes us human.
Sexual activity, to
be human, must be governed by love. To the extent that it becomes mere
instinct, desire and satisfaction, it becomes sub-human and destructive
to a stable human society.
Being able to love is at the core of being a
human person. It is the center of human existence. It can be expressed
sexually, and powerfully so, but sex alone is not love, anymore than
love needs to be expressed sexually.
Love is an action. Love is giving something of
myself freely, hoping
for a return of your love, but not making this a condition of my gift.
Love is giving something that will make you happier, healthier, holier,
wiser, more mature, more content, more secure. True love is never
selfish. It means doing what is best for you, who I love. This is Dr.
John Willke. (TOC)
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NIGHT MIRRORS
DAY
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. A
married couple's night reflects like a mirror the day that precedes
it. Was it a good or a bad day between them?
Did they talk to each
other about what each was doing; did they share what each hoped to
accomplish that day?
Were they tender and considerate of each
other? Or
did they ignore each other? Was there apartness, a distancing, arguing,
bitterness, upset?
Nighttime compatibility reflects the
all-day-longness of their life.
Young people must be told this. It is of crucial importance and true of
every marriage.
You should marry a person with whom you're
compatible
all day long. If you do, the nights will take care of themselves and
grow in richness. Take it from a guy who has had 49 wonderful years
with the same woman. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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EXAMPLE
TEACHES
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. A
philandering husband cheating on his wife may be a very accomplished
sexual athlete indeed.
He may know all about it and know how to do it
very well, but he flunks sex education. He's using his power of sex in
a way that's damaging to himself and to all of those close to him.
Another couple, however, may have never heard
of fallopian tubes but
may have used sex within their marriage in a way that has brought them
peace, fulfillment and happiness.
If their children also reflect the
security and love of the home that these parents have created, they get
an "A" in sex education. You see, most values and attitudes are taught
by the day-to-day witnessing of parents' lives and have very little to
do with teaching facts of biology. This is Dr. John Willke. (TOC)
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WHAT IS SEX ED.?
This is Dr. John Willke with a Life Issue. Sex
education is largely accomplished at home before the child enters
school and in fact is largely learning attitudes about masculine and
feminine sexuality. (TOC)
This way of living and acting, taught by their
parents' example, largely determines whether their children will adopt
as their own a set of values that will help bring them happiness and
peace and will help stabilize the society in which they will live as
adults.
This, at its core, is what sex education is
all about. It's an
education to a value system, and parents' actions speak so loud that
their children can't hear the words they say. For better or for worse,
in so many ways, your children will end up doing as you did, not as you
told them to do. Think about it. This is Dr. John Willke.(TOC)
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